The Rise of French BDSM Culture: From Whipping Parties to Everyday Life
In France, BDSM culture has gained unprecedented attention and popularity in recent years. In November 2024 , Le Monde newspaper reported on the democratization of BDSM and its spread into the mainstream. This phenomenon is particularly evident in so-called "fessée goûters" events, where people can gather in a safe and communal atmosphere to try out whipping and other BDSM practices.
Workshops and events attract crowds
The BDSM community has long been part of the margins of sexuality, but now French organizers have begun to offer more open and accessible events, even for first-time participants. These events often include educational elements that emphasize the importance of consent, safety, and communication in BDSM play. For many participants, this offers the opportunity to learn new skills and gain a deeper understanding of their own preferences.
A list of events in the Paris BDSM community can be found here.
Social change and the disappearance of stigma
In France, as in many other countries, BDSM has long been a taboo. However, in recent years, its stigma has begun to ease, especially due to the influence of popular culture and social media. With the help of films such as " Fifty Shades of Grey ", as well as documentaries and podcasts, people have begun to understand that BDSM is , for many, part of a healthy and consensual sexuality. The French documentary "Le Monde du BDSM" offers an in-depth look at the subject.
Future prospects
The French BDSM culture offers an interesting example of how a traditionally marginal phenomenon can become part of the mainstream. Its growth reflects a broader trend towards greater respect for diversity in sexuality. Sexuality education organizations such as SOS BDSM are working to promote safe practices and consent in communities. Open events and educational initiatives offer hope that the principles of consent and safety can be more deeply rooted in other aspects of sexuality.